“Look at me!” How many times a day does your preschooler say that phrase? For most children, it would be dozens of times each day. They are exploring, creating, using new skills, and working on their individuality when they implore you to give them attention.
As it turns out, our adult reaction to that phrase can impact your child’s learning. An article titled The Importance of the “Look at Me” Moment, by Sari Harrar, tells about research done on this subject. The research was done by Concordia University in Canada. Adults that gave quality attention to the children when they used that phrase had better cooperation of the children when they tried to teach a new skill. The author of the article concluded: “It seems a love of learning – and of working with other people in order to learn — has its roots in what you do when they yell LOOK AT ME!”
Read more at http://www.philly.com/philly/blogs/healthy_kids/The-Importance-of-the-Look-at-Me-Moment.html#3RdGXQbWxQQKoZXg.99
Most children crave our attention. Some will take it whether it is good or bad – just so it is our undivided attention. In Preschool Sunday School at First Baptist Church, Ft. Oglethorpe, we have low class sizes so that our adults can give each child the attention he or she needs. We want the children to know that people at church love and care for them. Then the children are more ready to hear from our teachers about Jesus and His love for each of them.
What motivates you to do things? If your motivation comes from someone telling you that you did a good job, or from extra pay at work, or from the prospect of winning an award, you are depending on extrinsic, or external, motivation. If your motivation comes from a sense of satisfaction from doing your best, from a sense of responsibility, or from knowing you are pleasing God, then you are depending on intrinsic, or internal, motivation.
In Preschool Sunday School at First Baptist Church, Fort Oglethorpe, we use external motivation to provide encouragement to the children until they develop their own internal motivation. For example, some classes sing “It’s clean-up time” when it is time to put away all materials for group time or transition to Extended Teaching Care. Most children soon join in the fun of cleaning up the room with that bit of external motivation. Our goal is for them to come to enjoy simple tasks that help others, becoming internal motivation.
You will find many things in our classrooms. One thing you will not find is a list of children’s names with stickers or check marks beside them. That is a form of external motivation that we do not feel is appropriate for preschoolers in Sunday School. If the charts are for attendance, we know our children cannot drive or walk themselves to Sunday School. A lack of recognition on a chart would be hurtful since they cannot control it. We do not use charts for Bible verse memorization. While we encourage learning the Bible verses or thoughts, most of our children cannot read. They are in the emergent literacy stage of development. They must depend on the adults to help them with their memorization. Some families, for a variety of reasons, cannot help their children each week. Not achieving external recognition, for whatever task, would make the children sad and dislike coming to Sunday School.
Jesus welcomed the children to come to Him. We welcome them to Sunday School where they hear about Him and His love for them. We know they learn best when they are happy, so you will hear happy sounds coming from our rooms. We are laying the foundation for that important internal process that leads to accepting Jesus as their Savior. Each child gets a sticker each Sunday with their name on it, which they wear for security purposes. Come join us this Sunday!
“God made the wild animals according to their kinds, the livestock according to their kinds, and all the creatures that move along the ground according to their kinds. And God saw that it was good.” Genesis 1:25 NIV
As you vacation this summer, have you planned experiences with wild animals? That probably sounds like an off-beat question. Why would we intentionally plan to interact with wild animals? God has given us the animals for our benefit and enjoyment.
For several years, our family gathered on Jekyll Island, Georgia, one week each summer. When my nephews were small, we decided to participate in a turtle walk. We met at the nature center late one evening just before sundown. The wildlife officer explained what we would be doing as we watched for loggerhead sea turtles to come ashore to lay their eggs. The loggerheads are a protected species and there were things we could not do such as bring a regular flashlight.
After our orientation, we drove to the beach and began walking a deserted section. The moon was beautiful on the waves that night. The sand was soft under our feet. We kept scanning the ocean for signs of a mother loggerhead to come ashore. Finally, the guide said we were out of luck that night and began to go back the way we came. Discouraged, we began going back when someone spotted a turtle coming ashore behind us.
We could not get very near the turtle, but we could tell she struggled to walk. When she reached a certain spot, she began clearing the sand with her front flippers. It was when she started trying to dig with her back flippers that we saw she had been wounded. Her shell was scratched, and one flipper had been damaged. She worked long and hard to finally lay her eggs in the hole she had dug. Loggerheads mature when they are about 35 years old, and lay their eggs back on the beach where they were born. It took the poor turtle a long time to accomplish her task.
As she started back to the ocean, the children were allowed to see her up close and touch her. God has programmed the fledgling turtles, when they hatch, to head toward the light of the ocean. The eggs are food for raccoons and other animals. In order to protect the eggs, we had to move the nest back to the soft sand area. The younger children took turns carrying eggs from her nest to the new one dug in the more protected area. The whole family remembered the eggs, and counted the days until “our” nest eggs would hatch.
We all learned a great deal about an important wild animal. My nephews were ready to take on the shrimping and fishing boats whose propellers probably damaged the mother turtle. They were unsure they wanted any more seafood for a while.
Our decision to go on the turtle walk one night of vacation cost us very little. We brought back family memories that we all treasure. We also gained a greater appreciation of God’s care for even the turtles in the sea. The children understood more about how He planned for us to care for the animals even if it means moving a nest of ping pong ball-sized eggs.
Many beaches are doing similar turtle walks. Do not save it for your last night at the beach. It was very late when we got back to where we were staying, and we appreciated extra sleep the next morning.
“I pwege awegiance to de fwag…” It is so cute when our children first learn to say the Pledge of Allegiance to our country’s flag. They have a hard time with some of the words. They do not understand the concepts behind such words as “republic” and “indivisible.” We try to help them understand the words at a very basic level. When they are older, they will learn more about them and their meanings. For now, they know that they are honoring our country and that is important to their family and friends. They understand that their family is pleased when they finally master saying the pledge.
We encourage our children to learn Bible verses. In Preschool Sunday School, our verses are usually basic enough that the children can easily understand them on their level. They are explained to them, and related to their lives. Even so, as they get older they will be able to think about the verses and realize the greater meanings of them. They will be able to consider the context from which they come. It is up to us, the adults in their world, to be as excited about each verse learned as we are about their learning to say the Pledge of Allegiance. We show them that we feel the Bible verses are important by our actions.
Throughout our country’s history, adults have passed along their love of country to the next generation. They also have passed along important aspects of their religion. At some point in their lives, the children in our country are free to select their own religious affinity or lack thereof. Thank you for helping your children to learn Bible verses. You are laying the foundation for their faith in God and Jesus. When the Holy Spirit speaks to them, they will be ready to listen and respond.
Our new church year begins in September. There are several exciting things that are happening.
Some of our children will promote to new classes in Sunday School. We have class sizes that allow each child to have individual attention as they learn truths from the Bible through activities and group time. It is always exciting in Preschool Sunday School!
We will have Sunday morning worship at 10:55 a.m. At this worship, we will have an orchestra and worship choir. Our older preschool children will attend children’s worship during this time on the first and third Sundays of each month. Our younger preschoolers will be in Extended Teaching Sessions, learning more about their Bible story for the week.
We will have a Saturday evening worship called Ignite. It will feature a praise team and band. Plans are still being formalized for this worship opportunity. If you cannot come to Sunday morning worship, or if you prefer a more contemporary worship experience, you will want to add this experience to your weekly plans.
Ms. Cathy will have new experiences for the children on Sunday evenings. She always has something exciting happening. Then on Wednesday night, Missions and Music are the focus of the older preschoolers.
Preschoolers are developing quickly as the days turn into weeks and years. As they grow, which is more important in determining the type of adult they will become – their heredity (nature), or their environment (nurture)? The nature/nurture debate has lasted for years among psychologists and scientists.
God has given each child a personality. This is evident among our smallest babies in the nursery. They have certain characteristics such as eye color, hair color, and height that come from their DNA. We know God “knitted them in their mother’s womb.” (Psalm 139:13) They have inclinations toward music, books, blocks, and/or other areas that become evident as they progress through the preschool years. We know that God has provided them with the tools to become productive members of His kingdom and its work. Nature is important.
Studies with twins separated at birth have shown the importance of the environment in the development of children. Whatever the parents or caregivers encouraged played a role in what the outcomes were for the individual. If they were musically inclined, they encouraged any evidence of an ability to participate in music. If they loved to read, they made sure to read to their child. The result was that the nurturing support of the adults played a large role in their development. Nurture is important.
What does that mean for parents and caregivers? During the preschool years, we should encourage the children to participate in playful activities that help them identify what they like to do, or have a natural ability to do. We should encourage them as they attempt different activities. God gave them their nature, and it is up to us to help them develop.
We need to furnish a supportive environment that nurtures their development in all areas, including spiritually. Deuteronomy 6:7 and 11:19 tell us to talk with the children about God during normal activities of life. Several of the Proverbs talk about nurturing children including 19:18 and 29:17. Psalm 127:3 reminds us that children are a heritage from God. When we model appropriate behaviors such as Bible reading, prayer, and church attendance, we are nurturing recognition of faith for the child. At some point, the child will need to decide to accept Jesus for themselves. In the meantime, our nurturing at home and church is very important in their development.
Both nature and nurture are important, and are part of God’s plan for us. He knows each child, and has plans for them. He loans them to us so we can help them develop into Christian adults prepared to do His will.
We will officially enter the summer season this Saturday. It promises to be an exciting summer with much happening. The hot weather and summer storms got here before the official designation of summer.
This Sunday we will have a whale of a time in Sunday School. Our Bible story is about Jonah and the fish. The children will focus on the truth that God will show us the way to go. Our younger preschoolers will also hear about Jonah in the Extended Teaching Session.
Sunday, at 6:30 p.m., our preschoolers who will be entering kindergarten, or who have just finished kindergarten, will have the opportunity to come to Vacation Bible School (VBS). SHINE will help the children learn what it means to give God glory and how to be a glory giver instead of a glory getter. VBS will be each evening from 6:30 – 8:30 p.m. It will be Sunday through Wednesday. You may pre-register at http://www.fbcfo.org.
For summer Wednesday evenings, the older preschoolers will be participating in “Facing Fear, Trusting God.” Children will earn tickets for being present, bringing their Bible, wearing tennis shoes, and participating in special themed nights. When a child earns 10 tickets, they get a trip to the treasure chest. They will also get to go to the treasure chest when they memorize 2 Timothy 1:7.
During the month of July, there will be no children’s worship. There will be children’s bulletins available at the worship center entrances. Remember to bring your going-to-church bag with pencils, crayons, etc., to enjoy the bulletins.
Many families will be taking vacation trips this summer. Enjoy your time away, and be careful. Please share with us any preschool information materials you get at a church you visit while on vacation. In the past we have received information from other parts of Georgia, and other states such as Texas. We use the information to get ideas of how to improve our program for preschoolers. We want to have the very best early learning experiences for our children.
Our local health departments ask that you consider getting your child’s vaccines needed to enter Georgia Pre-K or Kindergarten before the end of summer. It gets very hectic just before school starts. You want to have a calmer experience for your child.
There will be a church summer pool party on August 8. That sounds like we are ready for summer to be over. We do want you to have a whale of a summer, and be safe. Remember that we will have exciting learning each Sunday morning in Preschool Sunday School.